@SZondi
Last week while waiting for the bus just outside the
University of Sussex campus a classmate from Newcastle in northern England
said: “I am using Siphumelele’s voice for a documentary I am working on.” I
smiled as she said this. No one knew the reason I was smiling, but it’s because
she had said my name and pronounced it properly. This is a small gesture that
told me that I have been accepted in her circle. I then paused a bit and
thought about what had just happened and then realised that my friends from
America, Zimbabwe, other parts of Europe and even China say my name with no
problems here. This showed me that my friends in Europe think I matter and my
identity and being also matter. The majority of white South Africans refuse to
make this gesture which shows me that white people back home do not view me or
my language as an equal.